Okay—So admittedly, I’m a very jealous and negative person. I’m aware I’m really lucky, I have great parents and fantastic friends, and great opportunities if I apply myself.
I go through moods of depression occasionally, but I notice them and adapt my behaviour so I don’t get angry or upset at people for no reason. Recently, I’ve been feeling, rejected and jealous. Its because, on Twitter, someone who I adored, and looked up to with extreme passion suddenly blocked me. I have no idea why. I tweeted him occasionally and he sometimes replyed. This really upset me. A week or so later, he followed a girl my age (15) she has loads of followers, including a well known celebrity. She’s clever and talented. And gets tons of his attention. (No, I don’t fancy him. He’s in his forties)
I try and surround myself with my friends for comfort to get over this, but I can’t. Its hard to explain. But how can I stop feeling jealous?
Hi Eliza
I just want you to know, you are not alone.
There are a lot of jealous people out there, and I am one of them.
If you want to cure jealousy, you just have to STOP competing with everyone.
You have to realize, that there is ALWAYS going to be one person out there that has more followers then you, and you have to be HAPPY for them.
Remember, jealousy is evil, and you don’t want to be an evil girl do you?
You want to be a angel, and if so, you have to be happy for other people successes.
You have to understand that once you start being happy for other people, that are doing better then you, you will feel much better about yourself.
Competing with other people is so hard.
I used to compete with people my age with who can drive a better car, and I would get so mad, because this one girl had a better car then me, and finally when I got a better car then her, she got a better car then me. I realized that someone is ALWAYS going to be better then me, and there is nothing I can do about it.
So why not just stop being jealous about it, and not care?
Life is easier and happier when you stop caring.
Stop caring about this guy, and start following NEW hot guys. Trust me, there is A LOT of other hot guys on twitter to follow.
There are also a lot of twitter programs, that let you add new followers automatically if you don’t have a lot of time to add people yourself, and there is also another program that you can use to remove the people that are not following you, so that way you have more followers
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If you need someone to talk to , don’t hesitate to email me.
Good luck, and I hope you overcome your problem.
Love,
Pinky.